The Relationship Question
My boyfriend asked me to move in with him, and I did for about two months. I moved into my own apartment despite him wanting me to stay at his house. I’m spending the night at his house about four days a week. I keep a toothbrush and some clothes there but I have a hard time explaining the situation when people ask me where exactly I live. I only moved to my apartment because it was already paid for. Where exactly should I claim to live then?
The Relationship Advice
Thank you for sharing your situation. It’s up to you to decide what you want to say. The general idea is to be open and candid about any relationship you’re in and just let people know what’s going on.
You might find it helpful to take some time to figure out what you want to say and talk it over with your boyfriend. You get to decide what kind of relationships you have and how you want to be treated. If you’re curious about exactly where the relationship is going you can have some calm and kind conversations with your boyfriend where you tell him what you need and listen to him as well so you can both be on the same page.
It’s always a good idea to make sure you’re treating yourself well along the way and that you’re comfortable with where the relationship is headed.